How to tell who someone really is

 

 How to tell who someone really is - a brief summary in psychology

People like to hide themselves these days. We want to put our best foot first. Like a famous comedian once said, you don’t meet the person the first time you meet them; you meet their representative. I think that it’s tough these days to figure out who people are. It would be best if you were more sensitive. You need to understand psychology. I will show you how you can understand people and who really they are.

See how they are when they are in charge

When you give people power, then you realize who they are. When you get people management jobs, then they can do whatever they want. They can fire people if they are managers. I mean, perhaps it’s a little bit of an oversimplification, but in general, I would say this is who they are. They hid it all the time because they were waiting for the right moment. 

See how they are with money

You see those people that win the jackpot, and then they lose it all; that’s who they are. Because they thought that they were so lucky, and then they wanted all this money. After that, then they lose it all. It just shows they are an Irresponsible person. We could play the opposite card. It could be that this person wins the jackpot, and they share it with everybody. Then this is who they are. I mean, giving people a choice about what to do about things, then they show their true colors. And if they have lots of money, they’ll use it to benefit themselves, or they’ll use it to help other people. That’s who they are

Let them drink 

Some people say that they are a different type of person when they’re drinking. That’s because they don’t have any inhibitions. People need to control themselves regularly. Sometimes when people are drinking, they’re extra chatty. Sometimes when people are drinking, they’re super sad. They may get rowdy. They show their underlying personality that they were trying to protect in traditional society when they’re drinking. Some people fall asleep. Maybe they have a clear conscience, and they were exhausted because of everything they had to do during the day. The point is that if you let people have a little alcohol, sometimes they just let it all out. Then they show you who they are.

Watch how they treat other people

It’s hilarious, especially when people are dating. Sometimes, this is a little stereotype, but the man will be nice to the woman because he wants to impress her. Then he treats the waiter like crap because they messed up his order. On the other side, maybe he doesn’t do it that way, and perhaps he’s kind and friendly towards somebody serving him. It could also be a ruse; you never really know. But It suffices to say that many people will treat people a certain way when there is no benefit. Like when you see some homeless person on the street, and you know it doesn’t really matter if you give them some food or money, but you do it anyway. People see that. And then they know who you are. I guess it kind of works both ways. They see who you are, and you know who they are.

By no means is this an exhaustive list. Who knows, maybe there is some crazy psycho out there, and they are good at protecting who they are until the last moment. Be sensitive to what they’re doing, and they will reveal their intentions. A famous talk show host said that when you get people to talk enough, they show who they really are. People will tell who they are in time, and you just need to take notice.